A revolutionary book on self protection written for children and parents!

This long overdue book delivers sensible and reliable information for children (ages 8-14). It addresses the non-physical aspects and the physical aspects of self protection in an easy-to-understand format. It provides advice based on hard data and research, debunking sensationalist myths at the same time, and is in line with modern teaching methods. The book teaches children realistic awareness skills and draws a distinction from paranoia, promoting a healthy attitude to safety from violence in everyday life.
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Friday, 27 May 2011

Reality Training for Children Part 3: How?

The third part of my series of articles on teaching realistic self protection to children in 2006. This particular article gets to the real core of the issue. It reflects the importance I place on fully understanding objectives and promoting flatter hierarchies in martial arts and combatives teaching. Once again, this series was written for adults and is not taken from the manuscript for my unpublished book "When Parents Aren't Around: A Young Person's Guide to Self Protection".

How do we teach children to be efficient students of realistic self-protection and martial arts? It's a tough question and if training children is to be seen as an allegory for teaching fundamentals then it is not surprising that this very element is where the martial arts education industry is at its weakest. I see teaching children as a path to retraining ourselves about base principles and commonsense. In short, the premise I set for myself when I first founded CCMA (Clubb Chimera Martial Arts) was if I cannot deliver a system that can be applied by those in our society who need it the most, then I am not really teaching self-protection. In my previous two articles I discussed both why we should teach children, which addressed the intention factor, and what we should teach children, which addressed the knowledge factor. Now we come to the "How" component of this teaching habit, which addresses skill. I would argue that intention and knowledge are elements that are easier to retain than skill. Skill is developed and worthwhile skills need continuous development.

Children are generally taught in most martial arts classes using the ancient "donkey training method" - the "old carrot and stick" theory. Depending on the particular martial arts class, instructors either lean towards regimented discipline that involves the threat of punishment or reward their students with various bribes. The punishments can be a variety of things from being made to do press-ups to the threat of being excluded from a class. The bribes come in all shapes and sizes from material rewards to special games. These methods work well in the martial arts community, a subculture that is built up around the aspiration and awe of hierarchy.

I am not completely discounting these methods, but I challenge that the results they yield are pretty limited if this is a student's only source of motivation. In the short term the "donkey training method" shifts a student's intentions from his original mission, a mission to learn how to deal with a physical and violent confrontation in real life. This has now been replaced by a desire to avoid being punished and/or to claim a reward. What the "donkey training method" teaches in the long term is a wish to please a teacher, a grading examiner, a competition judge or some other well-placed individual rather than learning something for its real purpose. Sadly even the long term benefits are ultimately short term ones as time moves on and the novelty of having a certain grade or winning a particular trophy wears off.

Thursday, 26 May 2011

Reality Training for Children Part 2: What?

The second part of my four-part article that was originally published in 2006 in a mainstream martial arts magazine. As before, this series was written for adults (parents and martial arts/self protection instructors) in mind and is not taken from the book this blog is promoting. It is posted to demonstrate the approach I have developed in teaching children realistic self protection/self defence principles. 

Previously I discussed the social barriers that often stand in the way of teaching children realistic self-protection. In this article we look at what I believe we should be teaching children in the context of realistic self-protection, but first let us look at how these barriers, if we let them, severely impede our honest intentions. It should be noted that these barriers are often reinforced by sound arguments and therefore should be seriously considered before anyone approaches realistic self-protection training for children and teenagers.